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Saturday

The gift-swapping game doesn't work with God

  Did you ever play the present-swapping game at a Christmas party? Everyone gets a gift. People pick numbers (like from a hat). Then, in turn, each person has a chance to keep her own gift or trade with another.

 


It doesn’t really work that way with God’s gifts, does it?

 Here’s a personal example. Don’t laugh. OK, you can laugh a little, if you want to.

 As a young believer (and a much younger person), I was given one of those spiritual gift questionnaires. My results lopsidedly pointed to one of the gifts that tends to include a lot of homework. I retook the test a few times. I even looked up other versions of spiritual gift assessments, hoping to find the initial results were wrong and that I might have been granted what I then (wrongly) perceived would be a simpler gift.

 “Can’t I just have a spiritual gift that lets me simply show up and have God work through me on the spot?” I asked.  (I’m pretty sure God has a sense of humor.)

 

I guess it doesn’t actually work that way.

 No matter which spiritual gifts we are given, God expects us to study and train and prepare and walk daily with Him. The Lord may equip us on-the-spot for a ministry moment (such as a “word in due season”) or even a miraculous touch, but He still calls on us to do our homework.

  • Is your gift discernment, evangelism, exhortation? Better open that Bible.
  • Is it prophecy or healing? Gotta dig into the Scriptures.
  • Mercy or service? All together now: Need to know the Word of God.


 God’s spiritual gift list goes on (See Romans 12 and 1 Corinthians 12.), and each one brings personal responsibility for both training and availability.

 “But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it.  This is why it] says: ‘When he ascended on high, he took many captives and gave gifts to his people.’” (Ephesians 4:7-8, NIV)

 Isn’t it intriguing to see how God fits His gifts to each individual? Sometimes they dovetail with people’s lifelong (and still God-given) talents. But a believer’s spiritual gift may seem like a stretch to him or her, until God performs His wonderful equipping. 

 This salvation, which was first announced by the Lord, was confirmed to us by those who heard him. God also testified to it by signs, wonders and various miracles, and by gifts of the Holy Spirit distributed according to his will.” (Hebrews 2:3b-4, NIV)

 Go ahead and trade those White Elephant or Yankee Swap gifts at holiday parties. That’s the point of those wacky items.

 But God’s amazing spiritual gifts are personalized, specialized, and individualized. They are tailor-made and targeted. They’re keepers.

 

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Monday

 Why do we give gifts for Christmas?

 Strolling through a store recently, I spotted a banner that read: “It’s the season of giving.”

 That gave me pause. Sure, Christmastime brings out the giver in almost everyone. We enjoy picking out presents, wrapping them in pretty papers, and passing them out to loved ones. We enjoy seeing happy faces, as family members and friends open these parcels with surprise and delight.

 Don’t we all glow a bit when someone dear to us presents us with something special and treasured? Gifts are one of the “five love languages,” as articulated by Gary Chapman in his popular book by that title.  (By the way, I think there are more than five. For example, my love language is ice cream. Forgive me. I digress.)

 


What are your favorite gifts you’ve ever received for Christmas?

 It seems the most thoughtful gifts are personalized to the recipient. That doesn’t mean they’re monogrammed or imprinted. They just fit the person.

 Some of my most memorable gifts have been:

  • Tickets to attend a show together
  • Framed photo of a shared experience
  • A photocopy of my mom’s devotional reader, including her margin notes (after she passed)

 Surely, you can add plenty of special gifts to that list.

 

Why do we give gifts at Christmas time, anyway?

 

 1)      The celebration started with the angels and the shepherds.

 The angels heralding the birth of Christ bestowed gifts of comfort and joy upon the shepherds by Bethlehem, known as the City of David. (See Luke 2 for the whole story.)

 Remember David, the shepherd boy who killed the Philistine giant with his slingshot and later became king?

Back to Bethlehem: These startled folks, guarding their herds in the night, were roused suddenly by an angel choir and instructed not to fear, but to go immediately and view the Holy Child. History indicates these particular shepherds raised special lambs exclusively for sacrifice at the Temple in Jerusalem. It’s no coincidence that they were chosen to visit the Lamb of God, who would become both the Good Shepherd and the Passover sacrifice for all of us.

 When we bless one another with Christmas cards and words of comfort and joy, we echo the angelic greetings on the night of our Savior’s birth.

 

2)      The magi gave gifts to Jesus.

 The gift-giving tradition goes way back to the wise men (or magi), who brought treasures to the Infant Christ. (See Matthew 2:1-12.) We may scratch our heads and wonder about those seemingly strange offerings, but they were both prophetic and practical. These items had well-known and important purposes at that time:

  • Gold was traditionally given to recognize royalty.
  • Frankincense was employed in divine worship. (Look up incense in the Old Testament.)
  • Myrrh was used for anointing and for burial.

 Christian tradition holds that these gifts helped to finance Mary and Joseph’s flight to Egypt to escape King Herod's wrath. (See Matthew 2:13-15.)  Jehovah Jireh, the Provider, works in wondrous ways!

 When we give Christmas gifts, we commemorate the generosity of the magi to the incarnate Christ born to redeem us.

 

                                                Adoration of the Magi, Cornelis de Vos, early 17th Century

3)      We give because He has given to us.

 That’s Christmas in one line.

  • We bless, because He first blessed us.
  • We come to Him, because He first came to us.
  • We are called to love, because He first loved us.

 

“We love because He first loved us.” (1 John 4:19, NIV)

 

4)      Christmas is a big birthday party.

 We honor the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ on Christmas Day. Sure, scholars of various sorts have long debated the actual date of Jesus’ birth. But for the rest of us, we choose to celebrate His nativity on December 25th – and we are grateful for this indescribably wondrous gift all year long.

 

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·        How to Make a Jesse Tree for Christmas

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·        Looking at a Light that Led

 

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Tuesday

How to Make a Jesse Tree for Christmas

 Family Fun and Holiday Learning During the Advent Season


Amid the excitement and flurry of activity that surrounds holiday season each year, how can families refocus upon the true meaning of Christmas?

 The Jesse Tree family tradition offers excellent teachable moments for parents and children, while tracing the story of God and His people, from Creation to the coming of Christ.

 The Old Testament prophet Isaiah, foretelling the coming of Christ, stated that the Messiah would be born from the root of Jesse, which was the line of Israel's King David. (See Isaiah 11:1-3). From this passage (and others like it) comes the symbolic Jesse Tree.

 Although Jesse Tree kits may be purchased (even in felt or magnet formats), you can add meaning and save money at Christmas time by creating your own Jesse Tree as a family. Simply gather the items listed below, or make them yourself. (Hint: In our home, we like to hang little paper tags on each item to include the appropriate Bible references.)


 

 Families may select various Bible stories and Scripture passages for their Jesse Trees. Following is our own list of family favorites.

 Throughout the month of December, leading up to Christmas Day, ask someone in the family to read the selected Scripture and then hang the appropriate item upon the family’s Jesse Tree.

 NOTE: Written by this author, this copyrighted material originally appeared on another publisher’s site. That site no longer exists. This author holds all rights to this content. No republication is allowed without permission.

 

December 1 – Creation 

Genesis 1 and 2

 Choose a small potted tree to represent the Lord God’s Creation of the earth and all that is in it. If you wish, you might use any sort of tree (artificial or fresh). Some families opt for a plain branch (with several offshoots), which they set in a pot of plaster or putty for a Jesse Tree.

December 2 – Adam and Eve

 Genesis 3

 As you read this account of the fall of man, when Adam and Eve were tempted by Satan to sin, place a small plastic snake on the Jesse Tree today. If you are crafty (but not crafty as the serpent), then you might fashion a snake from play clay, chenille stems or another artistic medium.

 December 3 – Noah and the Great Flood

 Genesis 7 and 8

 These two chapters of the Old Testament tell about Noah and the ark, the pairs of animals, forty days of rain and the rainbow that indicated the flood was over. God sent the rainbow as a promise that He would never destroy the entire world by floodwaters again.

 Make a rainbow from colored ribbons, yarns, chenille stems or even paper to hang on the Jesse Tree on this day.

 December 4 – Tower of Babel

Genesis 11:1-9

 The Tower of Babel represented the conceit of man, as people tried to build a structure to reach the heavens. God had another plan, and He confused their language. (This was an antithetical foreshadowing of Pentecost, perhaps, but that’s for theologians to discuss, more than young children.)

 Craft a tiny scroll of paper. Singe the edges, if you wish to make it look antique. Write Merry Christmas (or another message) in as many languages as you can, and hang the scroll on the Jesse Tree today.

 December 5 – Abraham

Genesis 12:1-7

In this beloved Bible passage, God promised to make Abraham the father of a great people, who would someday outnumber the stars.

 Place a shiny paper star on the Jesse Tree today to symbolize God’s special people, the Jews, through whose lineage the long-awaited Savior of the world would come.

 December 6 – Sodom and Gomorrah

Genesis 19:15-29

God destroyed the decadent cities of Sodom and Gomorrah, after repeated prophetic warnings. The people did not repent of their heinous sins, so judgment fell. Lot and his family escaped, led by the Lord. But Lot’s wife turned back, and she was transformed to a pillar of salt.

 Hang a small salt shaker on the Jesse Tree today to stand for Lot’s wife and importance of obedience to God’s instructions.

 December 7- Abraham and Isaac

Genesis 22:1-19

 God instructed Abraham to offer his only son, Isaac, as a sacrifice, and Abraham obeyed. At the last minute, as Abraham piled kindling wood for the burnt offering and lifted his knife to kill the boy, the Lord stopped him. God provided an animal for the sacrifice. Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice his only son offers a spiritual parallel to the Lord God’s own sacrifice of His only Son Jesus.

 Tie up a small bundle of wooden matchsticks or toothpicks, and hang them on the Jesse Tree today to symbolize the altar for Abraham’s offering.

 December 8 - Jacob

Genesis 28:10-17

Jacob had a dream about a ladder (or stairway) leading to Heaven. He saw angels walking up and down the steps. Jacob’s vision included the gate of Heaven, with God promising the land to His people and their offspring. This vision foreshadows the coming of the Christ, who would open Heaven’s gates to all who receive Him.

Hang a little toy ladder on the Jesse Tree on this day, or cut a ladder from stiff cardboard to recall Jacob’s vision.

 December 9 – Joseph

Genesis 45

Jacob, father of the twelve sons (and tribes) of Israel, favored his son Joseph and gave him an extravagant multi-colored coat. Joseph dreamed he would one day rule his brothers. They became enraged at the prospect and sold him into slavery. Many years later, Joseph was a leader in Egypt during a time of famine, and he was able to feed his father and brothers. This Bible passage tells of that reunion.

 Tie a small scrap of multi-colored cloth around a branch of the Jesse Tree today to symbolize Joseph’s fancy coat and God’s providence through difficult circumstances.

December 10 – Moses

Exodus 3

This Old Testament passage explains how God appeared to Moses in a burning bush and called him to lead the Israelites out of slavery in Pharaoh’s Egypt.

 Hang a fiery orange leaf on the Jesse Tree on this day, or paint a pine cone in fiery colors, to represent God’s burning bush.


December 11 – Passover

Exodus 12

 When the Lord God delivered the people of Israel from their bondage in Egypt, He used a series of plagues. The final one was to slay the firstborn of all of Egypt. The Israelites, however, were spared by the angel of death because they obediently smeared lamb’s blood on the doorposts of their houses.

 In the New Testament, Jesus is called the Passover Lamb, because His shed blood covers the sins of those who trust Him, leading to victory over sin and death.

 Smear a white cotton ball with red marker, and hang it on the Jesse Tree today, to symbolize the Passover Lamb. 

December 12 – The Ten Commandments

Exodus 20

Moses climbed Mount Sinai to meet the Lord God, and God gave him two stone tablets containing the Ten Commandments.

 Cut out two small tablets from cardboard. Write the Ten Commandments on them, and hang them on the Jesse Tree on this day. 

December 13 – David & Goliath

I Samuel 17

 Young David, a shepherd boy, killed the giant Philistine Goliath with a slingshot and some stones. This bold victory demonstrates the power of God in action, as the Lord often delights in using small, seemingly ordinary people to accomplish His mightiest works.

 Hang a candy cane on the Jesse Tree today to symbolize a shepherd’s staff. 

December 14 – Elijah

1 Kings 18:17-39

The Old Testament prophet Elijah had a major showdown with wicked King Ahab and the false prophets on Mount Carmel. The false prophets summoned their idol, Baal, to light their altar with fire.  Then Elijah soaked his own offering and called upon the true God, who caused it to blaze.

 Cut out a small flame design from colored papers, and hang it on the Jesse Tree today. 

December 15 – Isaiah

Isaiah 6

Isaiah prayed and repented of his human frailties, and the Lord sent a seraph to purify his mouth with tongs of burning coals. The Lord God was preparing Isaiah to deliver His important prophetic messages, including the announcement that the Messiah was coming (See Isaiah 9:6).

 Hang a set of tweezers on the Jesse Tree on this day to represent the angel’s burning tongs. 

December 16 – Solomon

1 Kings 3

The Lord offered to grant King Solomon anything he wanted, and Solomon asked for great wisdom. (Clearly, the Lord knew what Solomon would request, and Solomon chose wisely.)

 This Bible passage recounts a very famous decision of discernment the wise King Solomon exercised.

 Hang a little crown on the Jesse Tree today. Cut it from shiny paper, or glue a small sheet of foil to cardstock before cutting. 

December 17 – Jeremiah

Jeremiah 31:31-34

Jeremiah, the weeping prophet, called the people of God to purified hearts and a renewal of faith. In this Scripture passage, Jeremiah describes the New Covenant of God, to will be fulfilled by the coming Messiah.

 Hang a small heart locket or charm on the Jesse Tree on this day, or cut a heart from stiff papers. 

December 18 – Jonah

Jonah 2

God called the prophet Jonah to go to Nineveh with a message of repentance. Jonah refused to go and tried to run away from God. The Lord made a large fish swallow him. Finally, from inside the fish, Jonah prayed. God made the fish spit Jonah up onto the shore, and Jonah obeyed the Lord’s calling.

 Hang a small toy fish, a goldfish cracker or a paper fish on the Jesse Tree today to recall the lesson of Jonah. 

December 19 – Habakkuk

Habakkuk 2:1-3

The Old Testament prophet Habakkuk stood on the watchtower, obeying the Lord’s instructions, and the Lord gave him a message of hope and redemption for His people. This message would be fulfilled by the arrival of the Messiah, Jesus.

 Hang a wristwatch or a little clock on the Jesse Tree on this day, as a reminder of Habakkuk on the watchtower and the need to wait on God for His timing and His answers. 

December 20 – Nehemiah

Nehemiah 2

Nehemiah, cup-bearer to King Artaxerxes, broke with protocol by asking the king for permission to return to his homeland to rebuild the decrepit Jerusalem wall. Miraculously, the king agreed.

 Construct a small brick wall from cardboard, and hang it on the Jesse Tree today. 

December 21 – John the Baptist

Luke 3:1-20

John the Baptist declared that he was sent to prepare the way for the coming of the Lord, the Savior of the World. When Jesus arrived, his cousin John baptized Him in the Jordan River of Israel.

 Hang a seashell on the Jesse Tree to symbolize the water of the Jordan, in which Jesus was baptized at the beginning of His earthly ministry. (Of course, the Jordan River does not contain seashells, but the shell is symbolic anyway.) 

December 22 – Mary and the Angel Gabriel

Luke 1:26-38

God sent the angel Gabriel to visit the Virgin Mary to inform her that she would be mother to the infant Christ Jesus. Mary humbly agreed to do the Lord’s bidding.

 Hang a white lily, or another white flower, on the Jesse Tree today as a reminder of the Virgin Mary. (Some families make white tissue paper flowers for this day.) 

December 23 – Joseph

Matthew 1:19-25

Joseph, a carpenter, was engaged to be married to Mary. When Mary became pregnant, Joseph was not sure what to do at first. The Lord sent an angel to speak to Joseph in a dream, reassuring him of his marriage to the young girl and confirming that she was indeed carrying the Son of God.

 Hang a small hammer or a wooden ruler on the Jesse Tree today to represent the carpenter Joseph, the earthly father of Jesus. 

December 24 – Bethlehem

Micah 5:2 and Luke 2:1-7

Bethlehem, the city of David, was long prophesied to be the expected birthplace of the Messiah. When the time came, Joseph and Mary packed their donkey and traveled to Bethlehem from their home in Nazareth to enroll for Caesar’s tax census. This was part of God’s plan, so that the Messiah Jesus would be born in the appropriate locale.

 Hang a single coin on the Jesse Tree on Christmas Eve to symbolize the tax census that led Mary and Joseph to Bethlehem. 

December 25 – Jesus

Luke 2:8-20

Jesus, the King of Kings and Lord of Lords, was born in a dirty stable, filled with livestock. Still, a bright star shone overhead, and multitudes of angels drew shepherds and magi to the site to worship Him.

 The three magi brought frankincense, gold and myrrh to the Christ child. Although these may have seemed like eccentric baby gifts, they were actually prophetic in biblical times. Frankincense was used in worshiping God. Gold was for kings. And myrrh was traditionally used to prepare bodies for burial. Jesus, the Son of God and King of the Jews, was born to die for our redemption.

 Hang three tiny gifts on the Jesse Tree on Christmas Day to indicate the birth of Christ and the gifts of the magi.

 Merry Christmas. The Lord is come.

 

The Jesse Tree Tradition

 The Jesse Tree is a long-held tradition for many Christian families. Why not try this deeply significant Advent calendar, which traces biblical history (and the redemptive plan of God), from Creation through the birth of Christ, the Savior?

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Is the Christmas spirit fleeting? Or, What’s in your wallop?



The holiday season seems somehow to bring out the best and the worst in people.

Aren’t we all inspired by the heartwarming stories of folks giving secret surprises or performing extra-mile helps to brighten the lives of others at Christmastime?

We love to hear about someone dropping a solid gold bar or a diamond ring into a charity bell ringer’s bucket outside a busy shopping mall. 

We may even tear up to see a news story about a long-lost prodigal returning home to a warm welcome and reconciled relationship.

On the other hand, Christmas can make people downright crabby.

I’ve been there. I’ve been the crabber and the crabbed. Recently, I faced an in-your-face reminder of this curious holiday phenomenon.

Finishing up at the checkout counter of a local store, I caught the lady behind me huffing and puffing and groaning. "Could you just hurry up?" she growled at the cheery cashier and me, as we exchanged a quick holiday pleasantry.

I turned and glanced at the impatient customer, realizing then that this was the same lady I had seen a few moments earlier in another department, struggling to pull an item off a wall rack. I had set down my stuff to help her untangle and remove the things she wanted.

"Are you looking for one of these, too?" she'd asked.

"Nope, just saw you needed an extra hand or two," I'd replied.

I'm not sure she connected the dots in the checkout line. Maybe it wouldn't have mattered.

Just before I left, I leaned in to whisper to the long-suffering checkout clerk, "Be extra nice to the lady behind me. She's probably had a rough day."

And I meant it. The lamenting lady likely had a long list of tasks to accomplish before her day was over. Maybe she’d faced a personal tragedy. Possibly, a nagging health condition made her uncomfortable and irritable.

Or it could be she was just feeling a little crabby at Christmastime.



God only knows.

Perhaps we’ve all had grouchy, Grinchy days. We’ve all had folks step ahead of us in crowds, pull into our chosen parking spots, or even confront us rudely for no apparent reason.

If we say that we have no sin,
we deceive ourselves,
and the truth is not in us.
(1 John 1:8, KJV)

Frustration is part of the human condition in a fallen world, isn’t it?



Perhaps we’ve all encountered folks who shocked us, in our own grumpiest moments, by treating us kindly.

All I know is this: Each of us can only choose our own actions and reactions.

None of us has to absorb the anxious, aggressive, or antagonistic attitudes of those around us. And others need not take on our occasional testiness, either.

If you love those who love you,
what reward will you get?
(Matthew 5:46a, NIV)

After all, what’s the end result of a knee-jerk response? Who becomes the jerk?

In His mercy, God often nudges our spirits to prompt us to stop and step back. Only then do we stand a chance of considering a gentler way, instead of a quick comeback or a quiet seething.

And be ye kind one to another,
tenderhearted,
forgiving one another,
even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
(Ephesians 4:32, KJV)

That’s grace. But it can be hard – so hard.

Oh, baby, we’re a long way from biblical Bethlehem.

Even so, come, Lord Jesus. In the meantime, help us to stop embarrassing You when we’re feeling a little moody, especially while preparing to celebrate Your birthday.


 
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