Kindness draws us to one another. But who is really kind,
through and through? How many times has someone shocked us with unkindness,
once we have drawn close enough to trust?
Consider these instances:
Consider these instances:
- the best friend, who spills your secrets to someone else
- the coworker, who takes credit for your idea
- the college roommate, who steals your boyfriend (or girlfriend)
- the teacher, who belittles you in front of the whole class
- the next-door neighbor, who snow-blows his driveway and sends the snow piling onto yours
- the family member, who bickers over anything and whatever
- the boss, who critiques you publicly, often for his or her own slip-ups
- the spouse, who _________________________
- the church member, who fails to notice the newcomer sitting nearby
- the pastor, who barely disguises your personal crisis and uses it as a sermon illustration
I’d bet you can easily think of several more real-life
examples.
Without mentioning names or specifics, I could fairly say I
have experienced all of these. (Who hasn’t?) In the interest of fairness and
candor, I should also admit that I have offended in at least a couple of these,
too. (No, I
didn’t steal anyone’s boyfriend or preach a sermon.) Thank God for His mercy.
Some of these offenses may seem mean-spirited and harsh.
Hey, they hurt. Maybe they weren’t all intentional, but they seemed unkind at
the time. Perhaps we even responded in-kind sometimes.
People disappoint. We hurt and harm. We overlook and overreact. We disregard and disrespect each other – whether we mean to or not.
People disappoint. We hurt and harm. We overlook and overreact. We disregard and disrespect each other – whether we mean to or not.
Not so with God.
Only God is truly kind. At the risk of sounding facetious
(which I don’t mean to do), I think it’s fair to say God is one of a kind in
that department.
In the 1980s, contemporary Christian radio stations were playing
this song:
Here’s the chorus:
“It's Your kindness that leads us
To repentance, oh, Lord.
Knowing that You love us,
No matter what we do,
Makes us want to love You too.”
To repentance, oh, Lord.
Knowing that You love us,
No matter what we do,
Makes us want to love You too.”
This echoes the truth found in Romans 2:4b, which says, “God’s kindness is intended to lead you to repentance” (NIV).
God’s kindness goes so far beyond anything we
mortals may muster.
Maybe
that’s why the Bible often calls it “loving-kindness.” Depending upon the
Scripture translation you choose, you may find this word in many spots:
- Ephesians 2:7
- Isaiah 54:8
- Nehemiah 9:17
- Psalm 117:2
- Psalm 17:7
- Psalm 31:21
- Psalm 36:7
- Psalm 63:3
- Psalm 69:16
- Titus 3:4-6
(That’s just a few!)
It’s affectionate,
benevolent, big-hearted, charitable, compassionate, giving, gracious, magnanimous,
merciful, serving, sympathetic, tender, and unconditional.
That’s
the loving-kindness God offers to us and what He desires to grow within us as
well. That’s the kind of kindness we want – to receive, to have, to learn, and to
share.
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:) thank you for such a positive thought! :)
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