People lie. Deceit
is part of the mortal condition, human frailty, and life in a fallen world. Untruth
thrives in darkness, but it shrivels in sunlight.
Cheating,
chicanery, and the craftiest of shenanigans merely melt under the Master’s gaze
– much like snow cones melt on a hot summer day.
Some of these sweet
summer treats may contain real fruit juice. But most are filled with artificial
flavoring, artificial coloring, sugar, and crushed ice. Leave a snow cone
outside in the sun, and it quickly softens into a sticky, icky mess of
artificiality.
That’s
what lies do.
Have you ever heard
of someone spreading a nasty rumor or deceit?
What happens when
truth is revealed? The prevaricator (or liar) is stuck with messy hands, as the
target of the falsehood comes out clean. That is, the target comes out reasonably
unstained, if he has not spilled lies of his own.
Someone
has been making lie-flavored snow cones about me lately.
I’m not even going
to outline the nature of this conflict. Trust me; you don’t want to know. Let’s
just say that there was a disagreement, and a few harmless ones were being
harmed. When this occurred, I went directly to the person in question and
outlined my concerns.
That person refused
to respond to the issues, so I moved on, removing the innocent ones from the
situation. Occasionally, that’s the only course to take.
Sometimes we simply
have to shake the sand off our sandals (see
Matthew 10:14) and walk on.
Almost immediately,
the rumors started to fly. Over several weeks, this person even enlisted a
small band of followers to spread the poison.
In fact, one individual
stopped by in person (when I wasn't around) to share her pretenses with some of my colleagues.
Fortunately, these straight-shooting folks did not take kindly to her dirty
pool.
Maybe that’s how
David felt, when plotters accused him wrongly.
“When one of
them comes to see me,
he speaks falsely, while his heart gathers slander;
then he goes out and spreads it around.”
he speaks falsely, while his heart gathers slander;
then he goes out and spreads it around.”
(Psalm
41:6, NIV)
Truth will
out in time.
Frankly, I’ve
considered a few creative ways to respond to the deceivers, but it’s not worth it.
Their charges don’t hold water. Their snow cones are already melting. And it's not my job to set them straight.
Of course, it’s not worth
playing the mud-slinging game. Besides, it’s not biblical.
A person who
plans evil
will get a reputation as a troublemaker.
will get a reputation as a troublemaker.
(Proverbs
24:8, NLT)
The Lord knows the
difference. Friends know the difference. Honest folks generally know the
difference. So it makes no difference.
Still, it’s hurtful
to consider how others may want to hurt us. And it’s easy to grow tempted to strike
out at others in return. But we don’t have to spread the chill by making snow
cones.
Thank God for His
grace, His power, and His undying love. And thank Him for stopping me in my
tracks, just when I need it most.
“There are seven things that the
Lord hates and cannot tolerate:
A proud look,
a lying tongue,
hands that kill innocent people,
a mind that thinks up wicked plans,
feet that hurry off to do evil,
a witness who tells one lie after
another,
and someone who stirs up trouble
among friends.”
(Proverbs
6:16-19, Good News).
God, keep
me honest.
Prevent me from
reacting, when I ought to respond instead, or do nothing. Guard my heart, my
mind, my life and my words. Keep me honest, and mold me in the authenticity
that only You can offer.
Give me a heart
like Yours, to love what You love and loathe what You loathe. Teach me to love
people, even those who do not love me. Keep my heart on the right path (Proverbs 23:19).
Let Your truth
triumph in our tests. After all isn’t everything a test?
Besides, I never
really liked snow cones, anyway.
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Whisperer by Thivierr
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